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    He Said/She Said: Transparency- Should I Say or Should I Go?

    What is a ‘healthy’ level of transparency in a romantic relationship!? – Kelley. Sara Says… As I think about this question, I’m on a bus from Houston to Austin, watching fields roll by outside the window. There’s music playing...

    • Posted July 25, 2016
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    Passion and Anger: Bringin’ The Heat!

    ‘What’s the relationship between passion and anger?’ – Marc.   Rob Says…   I think that ‘temper tantrums‘ have a very bad press agent.   ‘Fear is excitement without the breath.’   The first time I heard this pithy...

    • Posted June 6, 2016
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    He Said, She Said: Temper, Temper!

    What are ‘healthy’ temper tantrums in a relationship vs hurtful/unhealthy temper tantrums?  And, how can one try and steer the hurtful/unhealthy ones back from the brink?  -­Darryl. Sara Says…   Darryl, I wanted to pick this question because...

    • Posted April 25, 2016
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    He Said, She Said: Your Partner’s Fantasies About Other People- What They Mean About You.

      This week’s question is…   ‘What do your sexual fantasies about other men/women have to do with me? ‘ -Tamra.     Sara Says…     Nothing, and everything.   If you’re in a relationship where...

    • Posted March 14, 2016
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    He Said, She Said: Should I Do What I Want, Or What My Partner Wants?

    When should we do what we want regardless of how our partner feels, and let them just have their feelings; vs. when do we consider not doing something, based on how our partner feels? When are we letting go...

    • Posted February 22, 2016
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    He Said, She Said… How to Be Direct, Without Hurting His Ego.

    When a woman gives feedback and makes a request to a man, what are the most essential elements to include in the request, so that the man can receive it fully and not go into shame/blame/inner critic?...

    • Posted February 8, 2016
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    He Said, She Said #3… ‘Ghosting’: Why it hurts, and what to do about it.

    Robert and Sara support a reader who’s been left high and dry. Apparently it’s a growing, if disturbing, trend in the recent dating scene… Norm asks…                      ...

    • Posted January 11, 2016
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    He Said, She Said… #2: I Want A Date, Not An Interview!

    If you’ve just met someone you felt an initial attraction to, and the conversation quickly heads down the standard/boring interview-type question path, how do you redirect it to something more fun and likely to create a good...

    • Posted December 28, 2015
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    He Said, She Said… ‘Choose Her or Leave Her?’

    ‘Kaya’ writes in to ask: In all the longer term, intimate partnerships I’ve been in, I was the one to first, and most clearly, express my attraction and begin the relationship. Now after being pretty much single...

    • Posted December 1, 2015
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