- Put Down The Leadership And Back Away Slowly!
- He Said/She Said: Transparency- Should I Say or Should I Go?
- How We Lost Connection To Our Authentic Self
- Better Dating Through Genuine Curiosity
- Passion and Anger: Bringin’ The Heat!
- He Said, She Said: Temper, Temper!
- Get Out of my Bed and Let Me Sleep!
- He Said, She Said: Your Partner’s Fantasies About Other People- What They Mean About You.
- The School of Life, and it’s Big Lessons…
- He Said, She Said: Should I Do What I Want, Or What My Partner Wants?
All posts by Team Wabi
He Said/She Said: Transparency- Should I Say or Should I Go?
What is a ‘healthy’ level of transparency in a romantic relationship!? – Kelley. Sara Says… As I think about this question, I’m on a bus from Houston to Austin, watching fields roll by outside the window. There’s music playing...
- Posted July 25, 2016
Passion and Anger: Bringin’ The Heat!
‘What’s the relationship between passion and anger?’ – Marc. Rob Says… I think that ‘temper tantrums‘ have a very bad press agent. ‘Fear is excitement without the breath.’ The first time I heard this pithy...
- Posted June 6, 2016
He Said, She Said: Temper, Temper!
What are ‘healthy’ temper tantrums in a relationship vs hurtful/unhealthy temper tantrums? And, how can one try and steer the hurtful/unhealthy ones back from the brink? -Darryl. Sara Says… Darryl, I wanted to pick this question because...
- Posted April 25, 2016
He Said, She Said: Your Partner’s Fantasies About Other People- What They Mean About You.
This week’s question is… ‘What do your sexual fantasies about other men/women have to do with me? ‘ -Tamra. Sara Says… Nothing, and everything. If you’re in a relationship where...
- Posted March 14, 2016
He Said, She Said: Should I Do What I Want, Or What My Partner Wants?
When should we do what we want regardless of how our partner feels, and let them just have their feelings; vs. when do we consider not doing something, based on how our partner feels? When are we letting go...
- Posted February 22, 2016
He Said, She Said… How to Be Direct, Without Hurting His Ego.
When a woman gives feedback and makes a request to a man, what are the most essential elements to include in the request, so that the man can receive it fully and not go into shame/blame/inner critic?...
- Posted February 8, 2016
He Said, She Said #3… ‘Ghosting’: Why it hurts, and what to do about it.
Robert and Sara support a reader who’s been left high and dry. Apparently it’s a growing, if disturbing, trend in the recent dating scene… Norm asks… ...
- Posted January 11, 2016
He Said, She Said… #2: I Want A Date, Not An Interview!
If you’ve just met someone you felt an initial attraction to, and the conversation quickly heads down the standard/boring interview-type question path, how do you redirect it to something more fun and likely to create a good...
- Posted December 28, 2015
He Said, She Said… ‘Choose Her or Leave Her?’
‘Kaya’ writes in to ask: In all the longer term, intimate partnerships I’ve been in, I was the one to first, and most clearly, express my attraction and begin the relationship. Now after being pretty much single...
- Posted December 1, 2015